January’s theme song…



Reading, Listening, Living….



I am in the middle of a setback. It is not minor or major. It is a setback that requires me to be aware about my possibilities and patient with my emotions.  I’m doing a lot of reading and listening to help me live through the setback.  I’m sharing my reading/listening list because maybe you will find some insight and comfort, as well.

Happy reading and listening,


Protected: Two years ago there just seemed so much more….


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the list….


it is not a fixed list but a guide….this is what I’m working on becoming before I die…

Great sense of humor /wicked sense of humor

Skilled with his hands (able to fix things)

Healthy well-adjusted relationships in personal and professional life

Kind of heart – connected to the world in a meaningful way

  • Knows what’s important to argue over and what’s not
  • Cares about people and wants to make a difference in life
  • Not a dreamer but in touch with his inner child (but not arrested development)

·        Knows how to take a weekend off to go to Tahiti and why
·        Values reciprocity (and acts accordingly)
·        Has an inner asshole but deploys it judiciously
·        Prefers fun over moping
·        Thoughtful
·        Challenging in debate and the head
·        Intellectually curious
·        Cute

Values reciprocity

What I enjoy the most about @thegoodwife_CBS, @nashville_ABC and @scandal_ABC?*


Each show features flawed, complicated adults in love….none of this 20something shallowness personified by every episode of Gossip Girl ever.  Between Alicia, Peter & Will, Deacon & Rayna and Olivia & Fitz, I get more than a fair share of adults going through passion, obligation and regret.

Sweet fucking jesus….is that some tortured shit or what?