and the last #cheesysongoftheday for 2012 is….


Cheesy Song of the Day, December 31:

‘Feel Again’ One Republic

In the beginning, I was gutted and fucked up. Heartbroken. Depressed. Angry.

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That was my mental state on January 1, 2012.  I have so much to say but don’t know how to say it yet.

What you know now….


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Cheesy Song of the Day, October 27:
Got To Be RealCheryl Lynn

I know pole dancing strengthens your abdominals.

I know paying attention to bullsh*t is counterproductive.

I know there will always be a long ass  line at Family Dollar. ALWAYS.

I know I have a sink full of dirty dishes.  I’ll wash them…eventually.

I know women need to be saying this 24/7 to the politicians who believe in Legitimate Rape.

I know meditation helps me get through the day.

I know I burnt my dinner.

I know Caitlin Moran’s How To Be A Woman book is funny and she totally punked out by refusing to even ask Lena Dunham about her insular, myopic TV show.  Cultural discourse is supposed to be challenging and uncomfortable, not ass kissy.

I know I am grateful for Stephen Colbert!

I know compassion is easier to manage than free floating rage. Not that free floating rage doesn’t have its place in my life but I’m enjoying embracing compassion before the rage.

I know if I get a dog, I’m naming him or her Nebula Five.

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You always had more than anyone….


Cheesy Song of the Day, October 15:
‘The Difference’ The Wallflowers

The pressure lifted from my heart.  I could feel it lifting. I was in the middle of making a collage (what, doesn’t everyone do a collage to work out the angst & anxiety?) and as an epiphany hit me visually, my heart opened up. It wasn’t heavy with disappointment and regret.  It wasn’t the fluttering of butterflies that happens when you see a crush, but had the same effect: lightness, joy, contentment.

A good moment!  Maybe I can make it happen more often?

What’s YOUR Cheesy Song of the Day?

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one thing leads to another, too late to run for cover….


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Cheesy Song of the Day, July 20:

Too Close For ComfortSammy Davis Jr.

I select the song because my emotions are too close for comfort. Anxiety, insecurity, doubt, worry, fear, more anxiety are all at the surface and I want to shake them off.  For good. But that’s not life, right?  In my rational mind, I know that my feelings aren’t facts, just temporary phases.  But in my emotional vulnerable needy mind, I just want a security blanket.

What’s YOUR Cheesy Song of the Day?

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